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Things I Wish I'd Known Before We Got Married – September 1, 2010


Things I Wish I'd Known Before We Got Married Paperback – September 1, 2010

Author: Gary D Chapman | Language: English | ISBN: 0802481833 | Format: PDF, EPUB

Things I Wish I'd Known Before We Got Married – September 1, 2010
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  • Paperback: 176 pages
  • Publisher: Northfield Publishing; New Edition edition (September 1, 2010)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0802481833
  • ISBN-13: 978-0802481832
  • Product Dimensions: 8 x 5.4 x 0.5 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 6.4 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,094 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
    • #8 in Books > Christian Books & Bibles > Christian Living > Marriage
    • #11 in Books > Parenting & Relationships > Marriage & Adult Relationships
    • #25 in Books > Medical Books > Psychology > General
As you can tell by the title of this book, it targets those who are thinking about getting married, in the process of, and newlyweds. I would even suggest this book for a marriage on the rocks; it might help give that couple the chance to step back, look at everything, and possibly see where they can work in order to save the marriage.

I have to admit, my first reaction when I opened this book wasn't that great. The first thing I read was "On a scale of 0-10, how strongly do you feel the "tingles" for the person you are dating?" Don't worry, it does get better.

Chapman keeps this book very practical. One of the chapters is called "That toilets are not self-cleaning" - all about the contemporary confusion of gender roles. Some of the best practical advice is to recognize each others' abilities, and leverage them for the benefit of the marriage (i.e. If she is better at handling the money then she should).

One of the main points, as Chapman expounds on the two stages of romantic love, is that most men do not understand or comprehend female sexuality. We go in assuming that they are like us - even if we give lip service to the differences in the sexes. One of my favorite quotes: "If I had known that taking out the garbage was sexy for my wife, I would have been taking out the garbage twice a day."

Probably one of the most relevant chapters is the one called "That spirituality is not to be equated with `going to church'," One of the things that stresses out more Christian marriages is when one of the spouses stops going to church as regularly after getting married. He is not saying that you shouldn't go to church, but that we shouldn't hold that as the golden standard of spirituality.

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